Parent's Role in Child's Life

APSARA KATUWAL DANGOL

Happy Healthy Parents Make Happy Healthy Children.
-Dr. Miriam Stoppard

In this modern age, people normally live in a nuclear family rather than a joint family. And their life is busy in every aspect where every second count. Parents are busy working while the children are busy with their studies. So, the communication between parents and children is lacking which should be and is a very important part of life.

Whenever we share our problems with others, though the problem may not be solved, we will feel good inside. Especially, the children might get confused because they need to listen to many voices - that of teachers, friends, neighbors, and relatives. So, there is the possibility of them doing wrong things. And communication with parents is the only solution to get rid of all these problems and doubts.

Today's generation is really amazing because all are independent. Parents' go to work and children go to school. But instead of going to school, if children go to cinema halls during school hours, then something is going wrong.

Coming home late, lying to parents, misbehaving, lack of obedience, to parents are some characters seen in those children who are not so attached to their parents. They also get involved in bad habits and ruin their life. But due to the gap in communication, parents will be unaware of all these things. And when they find out, it might just be too late. At that time, care, motivation, and even inspiration will not work.

Many children commit suicide because of parents' individual differences. We have all heard about such cases and it is all due to frustration, insecurity, and pain. So, parents should take time out for their children, communicate with them, listen to them carefully and show them the right path. And the children will surely make their parents proud.

About Writer

Apsara Katuwal Dangol, is writer, educator, and psychosocial counselor. She writes articles which covers topics related to general and developmental psychology. She teaches to MA Clinical Psychology students as Developmental Psychology Mentor at Tri-Chandra College, and General Psychology at Shubhashree College of Management.

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